Monday 5 January 2009

Natural Game DHV’s: Demonstrating Higher Value

I heard a great value story before about Al Pacino that also gives me a sense of what is possible in pick-up. The Director is telling Al Pacino how he wants him to deliver the first two pages of the script to convey his character and the plot. Al Pacino says "We don’t need to do these first two pages. I can say all that in the first second just by the way I stand."

Attraction is mostly sub communicated through things like eye contact, body language and only a small amount of speech. Women do not respond to what you say, women respond to how you make them FEEL. This is sub communication on an ingrained level and is truly what generates all the attraction needed in a direct pick up. When you have these, No flamboyant routines, no playing hard to get and no social proof is necessary. Calibrate them into your own unique personality and you will be sending teenage girls into rapture.

Value isn’t a zero sum concept. Value is infinite; there is no reason to save or hide your value. It’s not an exhaustible resource, it won’t run out. I can generate value out of nothing in seconds because I understand what value is:

True Natural Game DHV’s:

• Great state regardless of the social feedback of other people.
• You don't supplicate and give your power away.
• Being able to fill or relax in awkward silences.
• Unreactive
• Vibe-sensitive. (Feeling subtle shifts in the interaction and never letting it get too negative, quiet or low-energy).
• Being the source of energy and good emotions.
• No active searching for indicators of interest (IOI’s) or fishing for compliments.
• Making people who are trying to 1-up feel like they are failing. Even cock blocks and alpha males are helping you and are on your side.
• Subtly screening girls you interact with.
• No qualifying, validation or approval seeking.
• Being present and in the moment.
• Not drawing emotion or state from the environment
• Feeling of self respect and high self worth.
• Perpetual and influential good feeling
• Assertive and unhesitant
• Well calibrated and socially savvy to all people not just the one you are talking to.
• Help people rise to their aspirations.
• Break rapport. shows non-neediness, standards and self contentment
• Talking about topics in detail without actually talking about any personal achievements within it.
• Body language well dialled and honed
• Not relying on alcohol. Visibly makes you sloppy and clouds your judgement.

The above examples are of how often natural guys without 'flashy looking game' will get laid. They are potent.

Michael – NYC